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Parenting Solutions

Coaching & Support For Creating Harmonious & Effective Families.

Welcome to Parenting Solutions

I'm Arnaum Walkley and for over 35 years, I have dedicated my life to helping families create harmony, emotional clarity, and deep, lasting connections. Through emotional mastery, parents can transform conflict and chaos into understanding and respect, fostering an environment where both children and parents thrive.
I know this because I’ve lived it.

LETS WORK TOGETHER TO CREATE AN IMPACT

One-on-One

Whether it's a newborn not settling or a teen rebelling against the world, I have you covered

Approach

One-on-One sessions to address you and your family's needs

Keynote Speaking

I provide informative, inspirational presentations

What I Offer

Over 30 years experience guiding families.

About Arnaum

The Journey That Shaped My Mission
In the 1970s, as a Child Care Worker, I witnessed firsthand how children flourished when given the right balance of guidance, boundaries, and love. This ignited my passion for working with families, leading me to become a Counsellor, helping parents navigate the joys and challenges of raising children with confidence.
But nothing truly prepared me for becoming a mother myself.

I faced the same struggles every parent does!

Despite my professional training, when I had my first son in the 1980s, I faced the same struggles every parent does, sleepless nights, overwhelming fatigue, and moments of self-doubt where I hardly recognized the person I had become. The reality of parenthood was far more complex than any textbook could teach.
Life threw its own challenges my way. I experienced the pain of two divorces, navigating years as a single parent while juggling the weight of responsibility and the emotional toll of broken relationships. There were moments when I felt lost, guilty, and completely drained, questioning whether I was truly the mother I wanted to be.
Through those experiences, I learned the hard way what it means to rebuild, to heal, and to rediscover my strength—not just for myself, but for my children.
Today, I share a beautiful life with my husband, Ben, of 26 years. Together, we raised my two sons through their teenage years, yet another steep learning curve! Now, as a grandmother, I have the joy of witnessing the next generation flourish, further cementing my belief that parenting is not about perfection, but about presence, love, and conscious communication.

What I Offer

One-on-One

I offer nurturing, personalised sessions designed to support each client’s unique needs with care and kindness. With a wealth of experience and a deep commitment to understanding the heart of each challenge, I create a safe and compassionate space for transformation. As an NLP specialist, I gently guide clients through a bespoke consulting experience, helping them gain clarity and confidence on their journey forward

Keynote Speaking

I am a thought leader in the effective engagement of families seeking solutions to difficult situations. My aim is to inspire and inform.

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Ongoing Support

I offer nurturing, personalised sessions designed to support each client’s unique needs with care and kindness. With a wealth of experience and a deep commitment to understanding the heart of each challenge, I create a safe and compassionate space for transformation. As an NLP specialist, I gently guide clients through a bespoke consulting experience, helping them gain clarity and confidence on their journey forward

My Philosophy & Approach

Parenting isn’t about following a rigid formula

It’s about discovering what works for you and your family. Every child is unique, and so is every parent. My mission is to guide parents in developing confidence, intuition, and awareness, so they can raise their children with love, clarity, and authenticity.
One of the most powerful tools we have as parents is communication. How we speak, listen, and connect with our children shapes their emotional security and self-worth. I help parents transform their communication patterns, ensuring their words foster respect, trust, and deep family bonds.

Empowering Parents to Lead with Love

Parenting is one of the most profound journeys of self-discovery.

It challenges us, shapes us, and, if we allow it, transforms us. I am here to support parents in that transformation—to help them reclaim their strength, communicate with clarity, and raise their children in an atmosphere of love, fun, and security.
No matter where you are in your parenting journey, you are not alone. With the right tools, awareness, and support, you can cultivate a family dynamic that thrives on connection, trust, and joy.
I am honored to walk this path with you.

The Expertise Behind My Work

My approach is rooted in both personal experience and professional expertise, drawing from:
Through these modalities, I support parents in gaining clarity, confidence, and the ability to shift patterns that no longer serve them. I help them reconnect with their inner wisdom, break generational cycles, and create an environment where love, respect, and emotional safety become the foundation of their family.

Ages & Issues

You may not have the roadmap or a manual guiding you through your child’s life but understanding the stages of your child's development is an important chapter. 
Every child is unique, so I am not talking about your child matching graphs and measurements, I am referring to having knowledge that supports you as a parent, to have realistic and respectful expectations of your child's emotional, mental, and physiological behaviour. 
With this awareness, you can support and guide your child through challenging times with intentional dialogue and loving actions. This not only strengthens your bond but also enhances your child's understanding of their feelings and how to express them safely.
Navigating the Adolescent Years with Wisdom and Love
Transitioning from Parent to Coach: 
Find your confidence in embracing your evolving role with empathy and guidance is essential as your child transitions into a young adult. Learning new skills to understand and support your teenager through their changes can be intimidating and challenging for you both, but it is crucial for their development.
Establishing Healthy Boundaries: 
Cultivating your own clear and fair boundaries confidently, you can be the role model your child looks up to, guiding them to create a harmonious and cooperative family dynamic. This not only benefits your family but also equips your child with the skills to take these positive behaviours into their interactions with the wider world.
Communicating with Your Teenager: 
Learn beautiful loving skills that will ensure everyone in your family feels valued, respected, and heard through open and compassionate dialogue. When the going gets tough be prepared.

The Power of Words

Parenting is a journey filled with love, challenges, and growth.

Many parents find themselves questioning their abilities, believing it should come naturally, but the truth is, parenting is a skill that evolves with awareness, support, and self-reflection.
I honour both parents’ and children’s unique needs, offering guidance to strengthen your confidence as a parent. When you feel empowered, it transforms not only your parenting but also your life as a whole.
Discover how to create harmony in the balancing act of life, work, self, and parenting.
I advocate for conscious parenting, an approach that respects both parents' and children's identities, emotions, and individual needs. I acknowledge the deep learning curves and emotional shifts that come with parenting, providing compassionate support through the process.
Our own childhood experiences deeply influence how we parent and how we communicate with our children and partners. By developing self-awareness, parents can break generational cycles, step into empowered parenting, and model healthy communication. When we heal ourselves, we raise self-aware, confident children.
There is no single "right way" to parent, every family is unique, and so is every child. Parenting is an invitation to reflect, grow, and heal past experiences while stepping into the kind of parent you choose to be.

 In our work together, you will:

Gain powerful tools to heal and evolve into the parent you aspire to be.
Identify and shift patterns that prevent you from fully enjoying your children.
Develop conscious communication skills that strengthen your connection with your family.

You are not alone in this journey, I am here to support you every step of the way.